Don'ts:
• Don't begin a chat with me, or anyone for that matter, with "ASL" = I will close the chat.
• Don't beg for credits.. I'm not your sugar daddy, I'm a developer, credits are important to me.
• I don't Cyber... It never ends well, please respect that.
• Don't ask to see my rooms, unless you are one of the following: Looking to buy one of my room products, a really close friend. If I like you, I'm sure you'll see most of them anyway.

Do's:
• Be kind and respectful, I will be to you, and expect the same in return.
• Be chatty. I like to talk... perhaps too much, so liven it up!
• Music. I like music.. the more the better... bring it.. but try not to overlap. :P

If you've made it this far, then good for you... you must really be a glutton for punishment... I like that. I create webites, clothing, meshes, artwork, and a lot of other stuff for IMVU personalities, friends, and am always looking for new frontiers. I'm not rolling in credits, but that's ok with me... I derive when I can, so please, take a look at the products offered, and if you find yourself needing something a little special, give me a message, and we'll see what we can come up with. Take care, enjoy life, and be nice. xoxo ~Jay

"I've Learned" by Brian Wilder
• I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
• I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
• I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
• I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.
• I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you a heartache for life.
• I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
• I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
• I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
• I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
• I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
• I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
• I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
• I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
• I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
• I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
• I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
• I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
• I've learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.
• I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.
• I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
• I've learned that although the word "love" can have many different meanings, it loses value when overly used.
• I've learned that love is not for me to keep, but to pass on to the next person I see.
• I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
• I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love that human touch - holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
• I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
• I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.
• I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think.
• I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
• I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for ourselves.
• I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.
• I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.
• I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
• I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
• I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
• I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.
• I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by someone else. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
• I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
• I've learned that making a living is not the same as making a life.
• I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
• I've learned that if you want to cheer yourself up, you should try cheering someone else up.
• I've learned that you can make someone's day by simply sending them a little card.
• I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of minutes by people who don't even know you.
• I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
• I've learned that mental stimulation is the way to a person's heart.
• I've learned that just because your not together now doesn't mean it wasn't meant to be. Now is just not your time.