Okay, look -- if you post spam on my message list, public or private, I will report it. I've done it a dozen times already, and I'll continue; it takes me less time to report and delete than it does you to send it, and I'm doing a public service. Spam is posting a message that tries to sell me something (other than the usual in-IMVU marketing for bundles and such, those are within TOS), or refers me to an outside web site to look at your webcam (and presumably pay you for the privilege). Get over it. Spam is a violation of TOS, and spammers get their accounts disabled, pure and simple.